Who is your Intellectual Controller Child?

This article is part of the SolePath Parenting series.

Charismatic ‘Sun’ Child | Compassionate ‘Moon’ Child | Inspirational ‘Cosmic’ Child
Intellectual ‘Star’ Child | Intuitive ‘Earth’ Child | Spiritual ‘Celestial’ Child

Children with an Intellectual SolePath are our Star Children, and they are curious and connected. A Star is a brilliant heavenly body, and Star Children are the brilliant minds of the world. 

The superpower of the Star Child is Brain Power. This means that they are an intellectual person who is curious, needs process, is unique and is kind.

This Brain Power superpower is how your child interacts with the world. 


Who is the Controller?

They also have a path connected to this superpower, which describes your child’s special and unique gifts and greatness. The paths with Brain Power superpower are Controller, Expert and Lateral Thinker.

Special gifts and greatness of the Controller Star Child: Responsible boss who is unemotional.


Responsible:

Your Controller Star Child is one of those unique individuals who just loves responsibility. Your child is confident and believes in themself. People look up to them and find them comforting, as you always know where you stand with a Controller Star Child. 

Support them as they learn how to take on age-appropriate responsibilities. Help your Controller Star Child use their inner power, physical stamina and incredible energy in responsible ways.  It really promotes their sense of feeling in control and boosts their self-esteem.


Boss:

Your Controller Star Child loves to give structure and direction. They love to organize and coordinate. Find ways to show them how to do this in ways that leave everyone feeling good.

Their desire and ability to take charge is an incredible life skill. Talk about how they can do this in a kind way, without acting like a bulldozer.

Thinking that things are out of control creates a deep sense of unease for the Controller Star Child. They need a life and a space in which they can exert some form of control.


Unemotional:

Your Controller Star Child sometimes has difficulty understanding the emotion that plays such a big part in the lives of others.  Emotion just makes your child uncomfortable. Sometimes, Controller Star Children may try to control those they love, their family and friends, because they are fearful that life may get out of control. 

Teach them how to connect with their own emotions. Show them that they don’t have to try to control other people and other situations – sometimes life unfolds perfectly without their struggle. They can be a bit serious, so encourage them to play and have fun.


Your Controller Star Child in a nutshell

Responsible * Boss * Unemotional

Superpower: Brain Power

Intellectual * Curious * Process * Unique * Kind

Controller Star Child

Knowing this, contributes to understanding your child at a deep level, and helps you to become the best parent you can be. A parent who provides a happy, loving and nurturing environment.

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Author: Dr. Debra Ford Msc.D.

Dr. Debra is a spiritual philosophy teacher with a doctorate in metaphysical science. She is an ordained minister and member of the American metaphysical doctors association and the Canadian international metaphysical ministry. Dr. Debra’s SolePath is Inspirational Teacher and Spiritual Mystic. It is this SolePath that allows her to connect, create and communicate the SolePath body of work. She is the author of 16 books including ‘SolePath the path to purpose and a beautiful life, Daily Pulse, rhythm of the Tao and her children’s book ‘Emilia Rose and the rainbow adventure’.

Contact: DrDebra@SolePath.org

Grateful thanks to Dr. Janice Brown for the wonderful blog images.